And I’m not going to rest until I get to the bottom of what’s gone wrong here.” Here’s a sentimental welcome: “It’s now the time where I’m supposed to officially welcome into our family, but the truth is you’ve been a part of this family since the day we met you.”Īnd here’s a funny one: “, you’re a wonderful woman, who deserves a wonderful husband/wife.

If you’re the kind who like to mock each other, then definitely rib him – just remember he’ll be getting this from the best man as well so don’t go in too hard. How you approach this depends on the kind of relationship you have with him. Next turn your attention to your daughter’s new spouse. READ MORE: 23 Emotional Father of the Bride Quotes and Toasts

You never did learn to turn lights off, did you?”? There won’t be a Dad in the room who doesn’t know that feeling! How about “She has always brightened up our lives. If you’re worried about going over, you could stick to a short joke instead. Tell her how proud you are of the woman she has become and compliment how she looks and what she’s achieved. Try telling an anecdote that really exemplifies your daughter – this could either be something funny or silly, or it could be her passion or commitment to something. You’ll want this part of your speech to be memorable and heartfelt. This is the core of the father of the bride speech. Thank the bride’s mother – this could be for her hard work in bringing the wedding together or for helping raise such a wonderful daughter – and say how happy you are for the groom’s family to be joining yours today. He would have loved to see you this happy you look beautiful.” For example, “I know Ryan is going to say a few words about Hannah’s Grandad – my Dad – who is sadly no longer with us, but I wanted to say how proud I know he would be of you today. But if you want to say a quick word too, you should. The toast to absent friends and family usually goes to the best man or groom, depending on who is most appropriate. If the mood is right, you can make a cheeky joke at this point too, such as, “Without all of you here today, it wouldn’t be the same…but it would be cheaper.” Welcome Your Guestsįormally welcome your guests and thank them for being here today. READ MORE: The Complete Guide to Father of the Bride Duties 2. Let’s hope I haven’t eaten someone else’s meal by mistake!”

It’s customary for the father of the bride to kick off the speeches – although I never actually received a formal invitation to the wedding. “Good afternoon, my name is Alan and I’m Hannah’s Dad. Most the guests will know exactly who you are, but it’s worth a quick introduction and a joke to break the ice.

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